is the night blackest when there is no one besides you?

It's hard to say for someone who has always bin there by himself... [herself actually]... but is the night dark at all? it depends on what seems to be dark for a person... for me it is day... sun it disturbs me.. people they only bother me but the night when the moon is out and no ones' around I could say that it is the bright side of a day for me... but does it seem blacker if no ones next to you? does the things seems different when you are alone and when someone is besides you? probably they do cause you know only when you are alone you belong to yourself and so you are yourself.. the true self.... when there is at least a one other person with you.. you have to share the room with him/her and not only physical room also the one your mind lives in... and that changes the way you look at things cause now it is not just your point of view.. it's part of that other persons point too